Rhoda Dugger married Amos Dyer on 16 Oct 1809 in Wilkes Co., NC (what is the source for this marriage?).
I wasn't able to find Amos Dyer on the 1810 census. He died ca 1813 probably in Ashe Co., NC.
Rhoda Dugger Dyer married Eli Harmon before ca 1818 in Ashe Co., NC (no marriage record found).
Eli Harmon was listed on the 1820 census in Ashe Co., NC:
* Ashe Co., NC page 10 Eli Harmon 300100-11100
* Analysis:
* 1 male 16-25 (1794/1804)=Eli Harmon (1793)
* 3 males 0-9 (1810/1820)=1-Benjamin Dyer (c1810); 2-Joel Dyer (1812); 3-Malden Harmon (1819) sons
* 1 female 16-25 (1794/1804)=Rhoda Dugger Dyer Harmon (1791) wife
* 1 female 10-15 (1804/1810)=Unknown daughter
* 1 female 0-9 (1810/1820)=Unknown daughter
Eli Harmon died on 30 Jun 1828 in Ashe Co., NC. (What is the source for this date?)
Rhoda was listed on the 1830 census in Ashe County:
* Ashe Co., NC page 23 Rody Harmon 2201000000000-1010020000000
* Analysis:
* 1 male 15-19 (1810/1815)=Benjamin Dyer (c1811) OR Joel Dyer (1812) sons
* 2 males 5-9 (1820/1825)=1-Malden Harmon (1819); 2-David Harmon (c1820) sons
* 2 males 0-4 (1825/1830)=1-Drewry Harmon (c1826); 2-Wiley Harmon (c1828) sons
* 2 females 30-39 (1790/1800)=1-Rhoda Dugger Dyer Harmon (1791); 2-Unknown
* 1 female 10-14 (1815/1820)=Unknown daughter (Emily Harmon?)
* 1 female 0-4 (1825/1830)=Susan Harmon (c1823) daughter
I wasn't able to find Rhoda on the 1840 census.
She was listed on the 1850, 1860 and 1880 census in Watauga Co., NC. I couldn't find her in 1870.